Starting out

Well, here I am. Trying to get pregnant. My husband and I started trying for a baby in November. However, we are having no luck.

I went off birth control pills back in October. Every doctor has told me to wait 3 months for my body to natually regulate itself. To date, I have not done that yet. Any suggestions how?

Obviously, not being regular yet is making knowing I ovulate a bit hard. Any advice there?

Now for some questions hopfully someone out there will be able to help answer:

1) Things to help with fertility for both me and my husband? These can be herbal, myths, etc.

2) How to deal with the frustration that comes with month after month of no success when you see so many other people pregnant or with infants?

3) Just plain advice on the whole process...